Generous like Bill Gate
Leadership like Winston Churchill
Smart like Albert Einstein
Funny like Eddie Murphy
Respect parents like Emperor Wen of Han
Treat friends like Guang Yu
Love GF/wife like Liang Shanbo
Kind like Buddha
There are more, but you get the idea.
Don't worry, I know I am not the best man. I have even mentally prepared myself to live the rest of my life in a Buddhist monastery if no girl ever like me. What you are going to say will not hurt me.