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lois_527

What on earth do you want?
When you are 20 years old, maybe you do not know what you really want, but everything seems to be doomed, for example, maybe you will be in love with someone, or maybe you will pursue your study or career. At that time, maybe you would love to listen some love songs, however, you fail to understand what meanings those songs are. In the meantime, when you quarrel with your lover about trifles, you would feel the sky is so dark, and even you can not live without him or her. Foolish~
What about 30 years old? When you see everyone around you has been married except you, maybe you will be happy that you are still single, or maybe you will be frustrated that you are so lonely. Also, you want to love somebody, but you are very tired of love because you are not young any more. Poor~
40, it is a terrible figure for women. What will happen? I have no idea　for I am not at that age. Nevertheless, I wish I can keep a fresh and young heart to face it. Brave~
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[ 本帖最后由 lois_527 于 2009-1-3 19:11 编辑 ]

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it's a secret~~:face2:

弱冠，而立，不惑，三个不同的阶段，不同的感触
其实，20，21，22，23……每年都会觉得自己成熟了不少
但是新的一年中，又会觉得以前的自己太过稚气了
这种回想往事的过程，会让自己老成许多，也多让自己增加伤感
但是若是没有这个过程，人，永远都长不大，徘徊在幼稚的朦胧中

其实总觉得自己不够成熟，每做一件事都不是很坚决，很怕自己会后悔，殊不知即便是后悔也未尝不是一次成长的经历，于是就这样，我慢慢地体会到了人生的酸、甜、苦、辣～～

We may get confused and wondering about the unknown future which seems unpredictable! althrough it's hard for us to predict the future, we should have clear direction and goal in our mind which will influence our behavior and being made desicion. All the acts should go toward to our final goal, which will lead us to the final sucess.

曾经是单纯的，所以对有些人和事都会失望到崩溃。
如今也慢慢习惯了人与人之间的关系，习惯了社会的复杂。
曾经为自己的善良付出了沉重的代价。
现在，依然会保持一颗善良的心，因为我觉得变得成熟了，理智了，可以去应付了。
以前的坏脾气，一句话都会让我抓狂，
如今跟朋友学会了两个字：淡定！
于是，短短20几年，
我们都在生活中不断的成长，在成长中经历着生活......